Almost everyone among us have been through relationships that didn’t work out and we had to break-up. Breakups with asian mature escorts are not easy and at times really ugly. But that can be just the tip of the iceberg if your past relationship stays with you in your present, not just ruining your peace of mind, but potentially endangering your future relationships as well. The worst part is, some of us do not even realise that this is what is happening in the first place and we blame our present relationship for the issues.
1. How will you know if your past relationship is your present problem?
Just like any other issues, if your past relationship is the one that is wreaking havoc on your present relationship, there are some clear indications that will help you understand. Today, we will discuss about some signs that you are still not over your past relationships or carrying the demons of your past into your present. Check them out and see if they match your issues.
2. You still think about your past relationships
One of the most definite indication that you are carrying your past baggage is if you are still thinking about your exes or some particular ex. If one or more person from your past relationship still has major space in your head, you are most certainly carrying the burden of your past relationship till now and this is causing issues in your present one.
3. You are waiting for this relationship to fail
Once we are through a really bad breakup, we often end up taking a really negative look at love. We start believing that there is nothing like forever, and we start expecting the worst at all times. This isn’t a good sign at all, because even if your current relationship is perfect, you are not accepting it to be as it is and slowly pushing it to the brink of doom.
4. You cannot trust your partner
Trust is a fragile thing and once broken it is hard to heal. The closer the person is who breaks the trust, the deeper are the damages. Thus, it can become quite difficult to trust yet another person. This can easily lead to lack of trust on your current partner as well. What you need to remember is that every person is different and not everyone will break your trust.
5. You are thinking about your past during intimate moments
Something none of us like to admit but happens nonetheless is that we think of our ex during sex. This is a major red signal and something that you will have to get over if you wish to have a good and healthy relationship.
6. You are scared of being single
If you are in this relationship to get over your past, don’t be. Do not make your relationship into a rebound case or else you will ruin everything.
If these are something that you have been facing, it is time you take time and get over your past at first. No one can live with baggage. The past is in the past for a reason. Bringing it in your present is never a good idea.
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